|Riotous pizza joy!|
I’m not good at celebrating myself. I bet you aren’t either.
But I also bet you’re super fantastic at berating yourself for your tiniest failure. I sure as shit am!
You wanted to work out 3 times this week, but you only did it once? What an ASSHOLE.
You weren’t going to eat any cake at the birthday party, but you did anyways? WOW… you’re a real DICK STICK.
You decided to watch The Bachelorette instead of reading War and Peace? You illiterate SON OF A BITCH.
Why are we such nit-picky assholes to ourselves? Why is it so much easier to dwell on the things we haven’t accomplished than to celebrate the things that we have?
I’ve done a really bad job of celebrating something that I totally deserve to celebrate.
Three years ago, around this time of the year, I decided it was time to be healthier.
I have lost 130 lbs.
|Killing it at Lady Gaga karaoke and killing it in general.|
It was so hard and frustrating and I thought I would never get to where I am today.
I am so damn proud of myself.
I’ve accomplished something so crazy huge, and I actually find myself hiding it… I delete old photos of myself and untag myself in photos on Facebook. It’s really hard for me to even casually mention it in conversations without adding some qualifying bit of information to make sure people know that it’s not that big of a deal.
I recently found myself getting jealous of someone on Facebook because they were featured on a weight loss page for losing a similar amount of weight. And I had to stop and remind myself that the only difference between the two of us is that she acknowledges and celebrates herself. SHE BRAGS. It’s AWESOME.
I think we have a real problem in our culture with people acknowledging how awesome they are. We tell them that they are arrogant. We tell them that they are not a special snowflake.
When we stop acknowledging our own special snowflake-ness, it makes us really bitter about other peoples’ special snowflake-ness.
You are a SNOWFLAKE. You are a SKYSCRAPER. You are BEYONCE.
And I think it’s okay to acknowledge that and throw ourselves a very special snowflake party every once in awhile.
So this is me bragging, and reminding everyone that I am Kanye West levels of awesome.
|Love yourself, you guys!|
Today I challenge you to celebrate yourself for something cool you've done. Maybe folding a fitted sheet perfectly or eating 5 cupcakes in one sitting! It all counts!